Licking White, Sticky Marshmallows Off Your Fingers While Still Wearing Heels

If you live in the Northeast corridor of the United States like I do, you got pretty much jipped out of a winter.  I must confess, I personally thrilled that global warming has come to town (only kidding) because the winter and me…not exactly friends.  I hate being cold and after about an hour of cars and trucks driving through the newly fallen snow it loses its Norman Rockwell appeal.

However, there are somethings that are just wonderful about winter.  It’s a great time to cuddle, wear fabulous boots, and enjoy roaring fireplaces…but it’s also a lot of fun to make your own homemade marshmallows!  Let’s face it…you are running out in the morning trying to get the kids off to school before rushing to work.  You are busy as soon as you get home at your other full-time job of being a mother.  Dinner has to be made, floors have to be swept, dishes need to be done.  I often wonder if my kids would recognize me without a laundry basket in my hands.

Maybe tonight you put all of that on hold and make these amazingly easy and scrumptuous homemade marshmallows.  The ingredients are pretty basic but double-check the list to see if you have everything because some of the ingredients are not readily available in a modern-day kitchen.  If you have little kids, they will be amazed as the marshmallows take form in the mixer.  Teenagers?  Just make them and watch their eyes widen with delight. If you are feeding teenage boys…double the recipe.  If by some chance you have made it to mile marker two and all of your kids are grown…light some candles and put on some soft music.  The marshmallows will do the rest.  When you make them you will understand what I mean.  I just suggest that you wear a nice pair of stilettos while doing so.

I hope you enjoy these as much as my family has and the guests I have made them.

Kisses Bellas…and remember…”the right shoe can change your life”…and enjoyment of marshmallows.

Recipe:

  • 1/2 cup (125 ml) cold water
  • 3 envelopes (21 g, or about 3 Tablespoons) unflavored gelatin [1]
  • 2/3 cups (157 ml) corn syrup
  • 2 cups (400 g) granulated sugar
  • 1/4 cup (62 ml) water
  • 1/4 teaspoon (1.5 g) salt
  • 1 to 3 tablespoons (15 to 45 ml) vanilla extract or other flavorings (try amaretto, grand marnier, or almond extract)
  • Corn flour (cornstarch)
  • Confectioner’s sugar (powdered sugar)
  • Food colorings (optional)
The cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture.

The cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture.

Prepare a mixture of equal parts powdered sugar and cornstarch or corn flour. Mix a cup or more of each in a bowl and keep it handy.

Prepare your pan(s). Marshmallows are very sticky.

  • Line your pan with plastic wrap, waxed paper, or baking paper for easier release.
  • Thoroughly spray the pan or plastic wrap with cooking spray or pour some oil in and spread it all over with your hands or a pastry brush. Make sure the entire surface is well oiled.
  • Alternatively, you could use a silicone pan as it is non-stick.
  • Tilt and tap the pan to coat with cornstarch.

    Tilt and tap the pan to coat with cornstarch.

    Dust the oiled surface generously with the cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture. Tap the excess back into the bowl and reserve it for later.

  • 4
    Put gelatin in mixer bowl.

    Put gelatin in mixer bowl.

    Pour the 3 envelopes of gelatin into the bowl of an electric mixer.

  • 5
    Add the water.

    Add the water.

    Put 1/2 cup cold water into the bowl with the gelatin.

  • 6
    Gelatin blooming.

    Gelatin blooming.

    Let the gelatin and water sit for about 10 minutes while you prepare the sugar and corn syrup mixture. The gelatin will “bloom” during this time.

  • 7
    The sugar and corn syrup mixture

    The sugar and corn syrup mixture

    Combine 2 cups of granulated sugar, 1/4 cup water and 2/3 cups corn syrup in a small saucepan.

  • 8
    A dial candy thermometer.

    A dial candy thermometer.

    Bring the mixture in the saucepan to a boil.

  • 9
    A different candy thermometer shows the temperature is almost there.

    A different candy thermometer shows the temperature is almost there.

    Place a candy thermometer in it and watch for the temperature to reach exactly 117°C/244°F (in the soft ball stage).

  • 10
    Pour the sugar into the gelatin and start to mix.

    Pour the sugar into the gelatin and start to mix.

    Early in the mixing process.

    Early in the mixing process.

    Getting close.

    Getting close.

    Pour the boiling sugar mixture into the gelatin mixture and start mixing it at high speed. While mixing, add 1/4 teaspoon salt and beat for at least 15 minutes.

  • 11
    Add flavoring and color at the very end of the mixing.

    Add flavoring and color at the very end of the mixing.

    Add the vanilla extract or another flavoring at the end of the 15 minutes. Add food coloring, if desired, at this stage, too.

  • 12
    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan.

    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan.

    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan. It will help to oil your hands, spoon, or spatula before beginning.

  • 13
    Sprinkle more cornstarch on top.

    Sprinkle more cornstarch on top.

    Sprinkle more cornstarch over the top and, if you want, cover with another piece of plastic or waxed paper and press the mixture into the pan.

  • 14
    Let the marshmallows set.

    Let the marshmallows set.

    Let the marshmallows sit for about four hours at room temperature.

  • 15
    The slab on a cutting board.

    The slab on a cutting board.

    Remove the big slab of marshmallow from the pan and place it onto a cutting board well sprinkled with more of the cornstarch mixture. Sprinkle more cornstarch on the side that is now on top.

  • 16
    Cut into squares.

    Cut into squares.

    Cut the marshmallow into squares with kitchen scissors or a pizza wheel. You can also use cookie cutters to cut the marshmallows into shapes. Separate the pieces so they don’t stick back together.

  • 17
    Toss gently in more cornstarch.

    Toss gently in more cornstarch.

    Toss the pieces with powdered sugar to keep them from sticking to each other on the cut sides.

  • 18
    Stack the marshmallows.

    Stack the marshmallows.

    Stack the marshmallows into containers with sheets of waxed paper between each layer.

    • Trace container and cut multiple layers of waxed paper.

      Trace container and cut multiple layers of waxed paper.

      As long as the containers have fairly straight sides, you can trace the bottom of the container onto the waxed paper and cut several layers at once.

 

My Deep Dark Secret…and the Hope I Found Through Heels

I am about to step out of my comfort zone and open my deep dark closet for everyone who reads this to see.  There will be some that will read this and question my need to put this in writing and others who know me may be shocked or saddened to learn of what I am about to share.  While I appreciate those of you who fall into either of those categories for taking the time to read this blog, you are not the one I am writing to…I am writing to the woman who needs to hear this.

My life at one time was full of dreams and happy moments.  They were so happy quite frankly that I could never have imagined things turning out the way they did.  But as I look back, there were clues…clues I saw, clues I tripped on and clues I fell over and for some curious reason I continued down the path.  I came from a small town and had protective parents and two younger brothers.  My world was pretty small and sheltered.  I was like every young girl.  I dated, had my heart-broken, laughed a lot, hung out with my friends, and went to college.  School was my thing.  I loved learning and I was good at it.  I received awards, accomplished goals, and met a man who I would eventually call my husband.

Soon I took a path…the path down the wedding aisle, the path to children and a very dark path I couldn’t find my way out of for a very long time.  The years collected and so did the clues.  The changes didn’t happen over night.  They were slow and methodical.  At first, I thought I was just becoming too sensitive as I got older.  I then blamed it on the pressures of life and the demands of having children.  Things progressively got worse  and as they did my excuses became larger and more unreasonable.

And while this was a slow progression, when I finally woke up to see how my life was eroding away, I was not the same girl who left her small hometown.  I was a grown woman who had been ripped to shreds by the razor-sharp tongue by the man she thought loved her.  I became frightened of the phone that it was surely going to deliver another round of stinging words strung together to destroy what was left of my heart and soul.  My closet became my safe haven and I found myself constantly worried about my children, my finances, and my ability to endure the next crisis.

What happen to the girl who was destined to do great things?  How did she become this frightened woman unable to free herself from the grips of abuse?  To this day, I don’t know the answer and yet I find myself asking it over and over.

Then one day…the pot boiled over and a force greater than myself guided me to safety.  I cried, agonized, felt guilt ridden that I had left…a sickness some may call it.  But for me, I felt damaged.  I didn’t think my soul would ever repair.  In some ways, I was not even sure I had enough to go on but I woke up everyday because my children needed me.  I got dressed, put make up on, and functioned the best I could.  Little by little, I started a company.  Not every day was great but everyday was better than what I had left.  Tears slowly stopped flowing and I was actually surprised to hear myself laugh again.  Every milestone I reached allowed me to replace my fears with confidence.  The mountains were still there to climb but I was no longer doing it in bare feet.  I was prepared and gave myself moments to think my own thoughts.

I am free now… Free of the abuse and the unacceptable….free to be in love and be loved in return…free to make my own choices…and free to be in the company of others or in the peace of my own being.  Leaving was one of the hardest decisions I have ever made but it is the greatest gift I have ever given myself.  You only get one life…no do overs, no refunds!  You have the right to be happy…the right to be loved…the right to be appreciated…the right to live without fear.  This may not be your story but if it is…there’s hope.   And this is why a portion of every sale from Deborah Stilettos is used to help area programs fight the horrible effects of this violence.  Cinderella was right when she said “the right shoe can change your life.”

Kisses Bellas

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

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Thoughts While In Heels-Relating to My Heels

This morning I opened my shoe closet to select what heels I would be wearing for the day.  The 5 inch nude Mary Janes…nah…don’t feel like being careful of the path I choose to walk or alert not to step on anyone’s toes today.  The cute ballerina flats…nope…they feel good when I first put them on but after a few hours they become annoying.  My sneakers…they are cute and comfortable but really are boring and predictable.  Maybe my blue suede heels…they hurt from the minute I put them on and cause me hours of after effects like blisters and cuts but like the definition of insanity I keep wearing them expecting different results.  Instead I opted for my beautiful, chunky heel, suede, red booties.  Comfortable yet slightly edgy…soft yet firm in its presentation of the heel…I true delight to wear.

Then it dawned on me how much heels, flats and stilettos were like relationships. Some are comfy and like an old shoe…reliable but lackluster in the thrill department.  Others are painful from the get go and yet we keep hoping they will soften up before they leave us covered in painful blisters.  And then of course, there are the heels that no matter what you wear them with or how long you travel with them on, they just feel good.

Now I am not trying to minimize relationships but wouldn’t it be fun if we could treat our human ties like we handle our shoes?  Just like Pintrest, we could view the shoes and “like” the ones on preview.  Others, sent to us via Facebook Pages could be “unfanned” when they became unappealing, annoying, or overbearing…instead of divorcing.  You could simply resole them, reheel them, change the laces, dye them, or give them to someone who doesn’t have any.  Shop for one on Deborah Stilettos.com and have it delivered in 24 hours without having to make small talk or trudge through a million bad dates.

I love my shoes…but truth be told…they don’t cuddle well with on the couch at night.

Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

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Heels To Flip Flops- What Do the Shoes You Wear Say About Your?

Just when you thought it was safe to throw on a pair of flip-flops or slide into a pair of 5 inch stilettos without being judged, the fashion statements you wear on your feet say a lot about your personality and you as a person.

If flip-flops are a staple in your closet, you are most likely a laid back person and comfort takes first prize when it comes to your shoe selection.  In strike comparison, maybe you are never caught without a fabulous pair of stilettos.  You wouldn’t think about going to the grocery store without a stylish pair of heels.  You would probably be a fashion conscious diva who is sexy and stylish.

Then there are those who wear Uggs in the summer.  Attention seekers who don’t mind their feet overheating, these girls are fashion trend setters who are independent thinkers.  Kitten heels are for those who have a sexy streak running through them but don’t like being in the spotlight as much as someone who would be wearing high heels to be an attention grabber.

Chunky heel wearers are those who follow trends and like being current, youthful thinkers. While those who wear sneakers all of the time are sporty and athletic or maybe the mother’s of young children in which they would be sensible.

Kisses Bellas,

DeborahStilettos.com

 

Heeling Heels

A few years back we had a presidential election that was based on how we could help our communities.  Now whether you were for one candidate or another is really neither here or there.  The point is we were all challenged on how we could help one another.  There are many wonderful charities out there doing great things to help those who are in need.  We like to think ours in one of them.

After a long personal battle of emotional abuse and the murder of my mother-in-law in 1999 from domestic violence, I have pledged my time, part of business and heart to helping others and their families recover from this debilitating and crippling emotional and physical violence.  The statics are staggering that one out of every four women in the world will experience some form of domestic violence in their lifetime.  Children growing up in these environments suffer in silence and often have lower school grades, anxiety and trust issues.

Deborah Stilettos, 16 W Bridge Street, New Hope, Pa and www.DeborahStilettos.com have pledged to make a donation every time there is a purchase at our store or on our website.  It is as easy as just buying a pair of heels, stilettos, flats, boots, lingerie, or jewelry and you will help others free themselves from this horror.

We can’t afford not to help.  For those of you interested in lending a hand to raise money in some of our charitable events please contact us through www.facebook.com/HeelingInc.  Just like our page to help bring awareness.

Thank you Bellas and beaus for taking the time to read this.  It is a cause very dear to my heart.  I hope you will all take a minute and ”like” our Facebook page as well.

Kisses,

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

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How To Display Your Killer Legs for the Summer

If you were lucky enough to be born with fabulous legs or are reading this while on the treadmill at the gym, summer is around the corner and you will want to show off what was a gift from God or what you have been working so hard to achieve.  If your gorgeous legs are new to you, you might be wondering what the best way to display them is.

Shorter shorts and skirts are the way to go.  Keep in mind to be more covered up on top as to pull the attention to the lower half of your body and those stunning legs.  Add some chunky shoes to the ensemble and your legs will be sure to amaze.

Most of all keep those legs moisturizered and tan.  Enjoy your upcoming summer season.

How Young Is Too Young to Wear Heels?

Admittedly, I am 45 and come from a time where kids were not afforded their every whim. In fact, if I close my eyes, I can still see and even hear my mother give me the lecture on why I did not need a curling iron at 12.  A decision I felt was completely irrational on her part and yet I still did not get one.

Today, anything seems to go.  We have shows like Toddlers and Tiaras and little girls like Suri Holmes have been photographed wearing pumps.  So the question I ask is “how young is too young to wear heels?”

Certainly the pundits have pontificated on whether the use of high heels would cause a young girl health issues whether is be developmental or injury.  I know they do because daily there is some article written about how bad high heels are for grown women of which I simply reply so is global warming, Twinkies, and bad relationships but none of those are going away anytime soon.  And while I think there should be some consideration as to the well-being of a child and prevention of any toddler getting hurt, I think maybe we need to dig a little deeper.  What is the message we are giving to young girls?  Ok don’t blast me yet…I am not a stiff conservative but think for a minute.  We have some very strong issues in this country in this country.  Unlike my days, Seventeen Magazine is not the only game in town.  In fact today’s girls are bombarded with a plethora of subliminal messages from advertisers and the fashion world…you can’t be too thin, too pretty or even too sexy.  The models are 14 going on 25 and very few women of today’s teenage pool are represented by these girls.

We already know that these tall tales that we continue to reverberate to our young women are resulting in low self-esteem, starvation and exploitation.  Young teenage women are constantly confronted on another way to up the ante on the get sexy gamble often being bankrupt emotionally before they even get to adulthood.  So what happens when we send the same messages to toddlers and young girls.  Do we really expect a better outcome?

Before anyone goes shooting out of a cannon…I, too, wore my mother’s heels around the house and relished being a princess for Halloween where I slipped into my beautiful pink plastic pumps but these were rarities and certainly not the norm.  As I am now the mother of three almost grown children, I can understand more clearly the words my mother spoke so long ago.  What is the rush?  There is a lot to be said when the day finally comes and it is appropriate to wear heels as a right of passage.  Heels can wait but can the emotional stability of our future woman?

Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

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Can Shopping Make You Live Longer?

Sounds like a setup but recent studies have shown that shopping can actually make us live longer.  When two groups of people were evaluated, it showed that people who shopped were more inclined to live longer than those who did not hit the malls or shopping areas as often.  Why you might ask?  Those who participate in the sport of hunting for finds are statistically happier.  This is because they are around other people, pleased with their purchases, getting exercise (I know this is a stretch but hey…who am I to argue with statistics?) and generally are on a more steady eating schedule.  So next time your husband, boyfriend, partner, loved one, or kids complain about you bringing in another shopping bag…remind them that you are just trying to live longer…remember…shop ’til you drop!!!!

Salud to a happy, healthy and long life.  With the new heels at Deborah Stilettos for $39.95, start planning for the 100 birthday celebration!!!

Deborah Stilettos

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