Nice To Be Nude

If you are like most women, your life is busier than Bloomingdales on Black Friday.  The last thing you have time for is figuring out which shoe to put on in-between your roles as taxi driver, maid, CEO, chef, therapist, and fabulous cocktail conversationalist. Well recessionastas, you can now check “find perfect versatile shoe” off of your never ending list of things to do. Meet the Anthony by Pierre Dumas. Classic, sleek, professional and sexy, this black and nude wedge transcends trendy and becomes the epitome of style.  The wedge is low enough to be extremely functional, whether you are grocery shopping or running the kids to soccer practice, but high enough to be elegant and formal if that is what the occasion calls for.

 

Classic black and nude wedge

 

Pair this gorgeous black and nude wedge with any outfit to boost your style points and complete a polished and sophisticated look. Simple but sexy, the patent leather nude toe adds a point of interest while the velvet black body keeps the look streamlined and minimalist. Perfect for any age, size, occupation, or event, do yourself a favor and come scoop up your very own pair of the Anthony.

Ciao Bellas,

“Because the Right Shoe Can Change Your Life”

Deborah Stilettos

Is It Crazy to Walk In These Or Is It a Shoe Addiction?

Ok…I confess….I love shoes.  I have more shoes than I care to admit at this time.  My closet is overflowing.  My office is decorated in varying heel heights so that I am always prepared whatever the occasion.  I am the CEO of a woman’s shoe company. Ok…I’ll admit it!   I am a shoe addict.

Some might take that as a negative but I relish in it.  I’m know as the “Queen of Heels” and what a great empire to rule…platforms, stilettos, flats, mules, sandals, high heels, kitten heels, boots, Mary Janes…you can call them what you wish.  They are all part of what I call “heaven on earth.”

The true addict has more shoes than what some would deem necessary which is a shock to her.  Someone once asked me if I thought I was excessive and I found myself perplexed as I thought everyone felt the need to have every color foot ornament in varying sizes and shapes.  Making decisions on sizes, colors, shapes, comfort levels, and fabrics is something I do everyday and I can’t say I ever get tired of it but just because of sheer exposure a shoe that makes me go wow has to stand out.  In fact, I pride my company in only selecting these styles.  We are anything but ordinary…because shoe addicts need to be wowed!!

Number One Seller

This shoe arrived at our store a few weeks ago and has caused quite a stir.  I never buy a shoe twice but I had such a demand that I bought every shoe I could get my hands on.  Why so popular?  I think the color has a lot to do with it.  Nude is hot right now!!  It’s an easy kitten heel so the amount of people who can wear them is huge.  The bow is dramatic and has a definite european flair which is not found in today’s styles.  This is a winner with an affordable price….afforable luxury fashion…I told you this was heaven on earth!  (available on eBay  if you can’t get to the store  http://stores.ebay.com/Deborah-Stilettos22).  It is currently available in nude, red and black.  Stunning and one you will not want to pass up.

For those who are looking for a little bit of a wilder look, go no further.  When I spotted these lovelies at the Las Vegas Shoe Show, I knew my shoe addict sisters would melt and they have over and over again when seeing them.  The attraction?  Different, animal print, rhinestones…three strikes only this one gets a home run.

If you aren’t getting your man to whistle a love song when you wear these, you better check his pulse.  A true winner!  I would even call this “zexy”…ok I made it up but isn’t it a good word to describe it?   Available on eBay  http://www.ebay.com/itm/2-HEART-KITTEN-HEELS-CHEETAH-AND-RHINESTONES-SO-UNIQUE-STAND-OUT-/170834293248?pt=US_Women_s_Shoes&var=&hash=item6d756d0ace.

Ok…now for my high heels sisters who graduated with a PhD in heels.  There are not enough words to describe them so lets just say sexy…crazy…heels and leave it at that.

This is available on our other shopping site.  http://www.bonanza.com/listings/4-CRAZY-UNIQUE-HEEL-IN-LEOPARD-AND-CHEETAH-PRINTS/72125481.

Don’t worry if these are not your personality…we have over 180 styles to choose from so go ahead…take the plunge…your closet has room.

 

Kisses Bellas and Always remembers…”the right shoe can change your life”,

Deborah

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Screaming Silence Behind Closed Doors

Take a minute and think about all of the women in your life…A mother, a daughter, a sister, a sister-in-law, a niece,an aunt, a mother-in-law, a best friend, a female co-worker, a cousin, a college roommate.  I could think of about twenty people who fell into one of the categories mentioned.  Now what if I told you that of the twenty people  who came to mind five of those women will be the victim of domestic violence inside their own homes.  Six of those women will be raped or sexually molested in their lifetimes.  All of their children will be drastically affected by living in violence. Leaving  their daughters with a  greater chance of becoming a victim… their sons with a higher possibility of being abusers. Startling statistics and yet these are so much more than numbers.  All of their voices are the screaming silences that seep out of closed doors only to fall on deaf ears.

Domestic violence is not just being beaten or hit.  It is being controlled, manipulated, shunned, repeatedly cheated on, publically embarrassed, black mailed, and financially strangled. It is being scared… feeling that there is no way out.  I know because I too screamed and cried and begged myself to leave only finding myself giving him one more chance.  Finally, one very dark night I finally found the front door and the hand of an angel who was willing to help me.  I got out.  My children got out.

We were given safe haven and to my disbelief the abuse continued and in some ways got worse.  I went to the police who could only encourage me to take the matter to a higher authority…the courts.  I was scared.  I felt sorry for him.  I hated myself for not making all of this better somehow.  I regretted not leaving much earlier.  In many ways, I had become sicker than the offender.

Things escalated. I filed for a temporary restraining order. I went to court.  Twenty minutes before I was to go before the judge I almost left fearing that I couldn’t go through with it.  Finally, I was granted the permanent restraining order.  Peace.

I don’t share any of these details to defame the offender.  It is not easy for me to actually write the words because seeing them dance across my computer screen makes them real and I have become an expert at down playing these events.  It has become a way for me to survive.  I am sharing my experience, strength and hope because while the abusers are the direct vehicle in which the abuse is delivered…it is the silence of all of us that fuels the efforts.

I watched a video tonight which I am posting at the bottom of this blog.  I encourage you to watch it.  We spend more money each year in this country saving native birds than saving the women and children of this country. An epidemic that will surely devastate the mental health of our people in the future.  It is not easy for a victim to speak about this.  It’s embarrassing but it is necessary.

If you are reading this and are suffering, please know you are not alone.  Find someone to help you and leave as safely as you can.  We need to break this cycle.  If you have survived abuse, share your story and lend your strength to someone who is feeling powerless.  God does not want any of us to suffer but perhaps he has chosen us…the survivers to reach out and save one of our own…another human being.

A portion of all the sales of www.DeborahStilettos.com, our store on Bridge Street in New Hope, Pa, and our eBay store will donate a portion of our sales to help women and children recovering from domestic violence.

I encourage to hear from anyone looking for help or those who can offer some advice from their own experiences.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3s2hu9Zon4s&feature=share

Domestic Violence Facts

Kisses Bellas…”The right shoe can change your life” but more importantly…no one deserves to be abused.

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

16 W. Bridge Street

New Hope, Pa

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Licking White, Sticky Marshmallows Off Your Fingers While Still Wearing Heels

If you live in the Northeast corridor of the United States like I do, you got pretty much jipped out of a winter.  I must confess, I personally thrilled that global warming has come to town (only kidding) because the winter and me…not exactly friends.  I hate being cold and after about an hour of cars and trucks driving through the newly fallen snow it loses its Norman Rockwell appeal.

However, there are somethings that are just wonderful about winter.  It’s a great time to cuddle, wear fabulous boots, and enjoy roaring fireplaces…but it’s also a lot of fun to make your own homemade marshmallows!  Let’s face it…you are running out in the morning trying to get the kids off to school before rushing to work.  You are busy as soon as you get home at your other full-time job of being a mother.  Dinner has to be made, floors have to be swept, dishes need to be done.  I often wonder if my kids would recognize me without a laundry basket in my hands.

Maybe tonight you put all of that on hold and make these amazingly easy and scrumptuous homemade marshmallows.  The ingredients are pretty basic but double-check the list to see if you have everything because some of the ingredients are not readily available in a modern-day kitchen.  If you have little kids, they will be amazed as the marshmallows take form in the mixer.  Teenagers?  Just make them and watch their eyes widen with delight. If you are feeding teenage boys…double the recipe.  If by some chance you have made it to mile marker two and all of your kids are grown…light some candles and put on some soft music.  The marshmallows will do the rest.  When you make them you will understand what I mean.  I just suggest that you wear a nice pair of stilettos while doing so.

I hope you enjoy these as much as my family has and the guests I have made them.

Kisses Bellas…and remember…”the right shoe can change your life”…and enjoyment of marshmallows.

Recipe:

  • 1/2 cup (125 ml) cold water
  • 3 envelopes (21 g, or about 3 Tablespoons) unflavored gelatin [1]
  • 2/3 cups (157 ml) corn syrup
  • 2 cups (400 g) granulated sugar
  • 1/4 cup (62 ml) water
  • 1/4 teaspoon (1.5 g) salt
  • 1 to 3 tablespoons (15 to 45 ml) vanilla extract or other flavorings (try amaretto, grand marnier, or almond extract)
  • Corn flour (cornstarch)
  • Confectioner’s sugar (powdered sugar)
  • Food colorings (optional)
The cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture.

The cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture.

Prepare a mixture of equal parts powdered sugar and cornstarch or corn flour. Mix a cup or more of each in a bowl and keep it handy.

Prepare your pan(s). Marshmallows are very sticky.

  • Line your pan with plastic wrap, waxed paper, or baking paper for easier release.
  • Thoroughly spray the pan or plastic wrap with cooking spray or pour some oil in and spread it all over with your hands or a pastry brush. Make sure the entire surface is well oiled.
  • Alternatively, you could use a silicone pan as it is non-stick.
  • Tilt and tap the pan to coat with cornstarch.

    Tilt and tap the pan to coat with cornstarch.

    Dust the oiled surface generously with the cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture. Tap the excess back into the bowl and reserve it for later.

  • 4
    Put gelatin in mixer bowl.

    Put gelatin in mixer bowl.

    Pour the 3 envelopes of gelatin into the bowl of an electric mixer.

  • 5
    Add the water.

    Add the water.

    Put 1/2 cup cold water into the bowl with the gelatin.

  • 6
    Gelatin blooming.

    Gelatin blooming.

    Let the gelatin and water sit for about 10 minutes while you prepare the sugar and corn syrup mixture. The gelatin will “bloom” during this time.

  • 7
    The sugar and corn syrup mixture

    The sugar and corn syrup mixture

    Combine 2 cups of granulated sugar, 1/4 cup water and 2/3 cups corn syrup in a small saucepan.

  • 8
    A dial candy thermometer.

    A dial candy thermometer.

    Bring the mixture in the saucepan to a boil.

  • 9
    A different candy thermometer shows the temperature is almost there.

    A different candy thermometer shows the temperature is almost there.

    Place a candy thermometer in it and watch for the temperature to reach exactly 117°C/244°F (in the soft ball stage).

  • 10
    Pour the sugar into the gelatin and start to mix.

    Pour the sugar into the gelatin and start to mix.

    Early in the mixing process.

    Early in the mixing process.

    Getting close.

    Getting close.

    Pour the boiling sugar mixture into the gelatin mixture and start mixing it at high speed. While mixing, add 1/4 teaspoon salt and beat for at least 15 minutes.

  • 11
    Add flavoring and color at the very end of the mixing.

    Add flavoring and color at the very end of the mixing.

    Add the vanilla extract or another flavoring at the end of the 15 minutes. Add food coloring, if desired, at this stage, too.

  • 12
    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan.

    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan.

    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan. It will help to oil your hands, spoon, or spatula before beginning.

  • 13
    Sprinkle more cornstarch on top.

    Sprinkle more cornstarch on top.

    Sprinkle more cornstarch over the top and, if you want, cover with another piece of plastic or waxed paper and press the mixture into the pan.

  • 14
    Let the marshmallows set.

    Let the marshmallows set.

    Let the marshmallows sit for about four hours at room temperature.

  • 15
    The slab on a cutting board.

    The slab on a cutting board.

    Remove the big slab of marshmallow from the pan and place it onto a cutting board well sprinkled with more of the cornstarch mixture. Sprinkle more cornstarch on the side that is now on top.

  • 16
    Cut into squares.

    Cut into squares.

    Cut the marshmallow into squares with kitchen scissors or a pizza wheel. You can also use cookie cutters to cut the marshmallows into shapes. Separate the pieces so they don’t stick back together.

  • 17
    Toss gently in more cornstarch.

    Toss gently in more cornstarch.

    Toss the pieces with powdered sugar to keep them from sticking to each other on the cut sides.

  • 18
    Stack the marshmallows.

    Stack the marshmallows.

    Stack the marshmallows into containers with sheets of waxed paper between each layer.

    • Trace container and cut multiple layers of waxed paper.

      Trace container and cut multiple layers of waxed paper.

      As long as the containers have fairly straight sides, you can trace the bottom of the container onto the waxed paper and cut several layers at once.

 

My Deep Dark Secret…and the Hope I Found Through Heels

I am about to step out of my comfort zone and open my deep dark closet for everyone who reads this to see.  There will be some that will read this and question my need to put this in writing and others who know me may be shocked or saddened to learn of what I am about to share.  While I appreciate those of you who fall into either of those categories for taking the time to read this blog, you are not the one I am writing to…I am writing to the woman who needs to hear this.

My life at one time was full of dreams and happy moments.  They were so happy quite frankly that I could never have imagined things turning out the way they did.  But as I look back, there were clues…clues I saw, clues I tripped on and clues I fell over and for some curious reason I continued down the path.  I came from a small town and had protective parents and two younger brothers.  My world was pretty small and sheltered.  I was like every young girl.  I dated, had my heart-broken, laughed a lot, hung out with my friends, and went to college.  School was my thing.  I loved learning and I was good at it.  I received awards, accomplished goals, and met a man who I would eventually call my husband.

Soon I took a path…the path down the wedding aisle, the path to children and a very dark path I couldn’t find my way out of for a very long time.  The years collected and so did the clues.  The changes didn’t happen over night.  They were slow and methodical.  At first, I thought I was just becoming too sensitive as I got older.  I then blamed it on the pressures of life and the demands of having children.  Things progressively got worse  and as they did my excuses became larger and more unreasonable.

And while this was a slow progression, when I finally woke up to see how my life was eroding away, I was not the same girl who left her small hometown.  I was a grown woman who had been ripped to shreds by the razor-sharp tongue by the man she thought loved her.  I became frightened of the phone that it was surely going to deliver another round of stinging words strung together to destroy what was left of my heart and soul.  My closet became my safe haven and I found myself constantly worried about my children, my finances, and my ability to endure the next crisis.

What happen to the girl who was destined to do great things?  How did she become this frightened woman unable to free herself from the grips of abuse?  To this day, I don’t know the answer and yet I find myself asking it over and over.

Then one day…the pot boiled over and a force greater than myself guided me to safety.  I cried, agonized, felt guilt ridden that I had left…a sickness some may call it.  But for me, I felt damaged.  I didn’t think my soul would ever repair.  In some ways, I was not even sure I had enough to go on but I woke up everyday because my children needed me.  I got dressed, put make up on, and functioned the best I could.  Little by little, I started a company.  Not every day was great but everyday was better than what I had left.  Tears slowly stopped flowing and I was actually surprised to hear myself laugh again.  Every milestone I reached allowed me to replace my fears with confidence.  The mountains were still there to climb but I was no longer doing it in bare feet.  I was prepared and gave myself moments to think my own thoughts.

I am free now… Free of the abuse and the unacceptable….free to be in love and be loved in return…free to make my own choices…and free to be in the company of others or in the peace of my own being.  Leaving was one of the hardest decisions I have ever made but it is the greatest gift I have ever given myself.  You only get one life…no do overs, no refunds!  You have the right to be happy…the right to be loved…the right to be appreciated…the right to live without fear.  This may not be your story but if it is…there’s hope.   And this is why a portion of every sale from Deborah Stilettos is used to help area programs fight the horrible effects of this violence.  Cinderella was right when she said “the right shoe can change your life.”

Kisses Bellas

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

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Wearing Your Heart on Your Foot?

This month I was lucky enough to attend the world’s largest shoe show in Las Vegas.  It was nothing short of spectacular as all of the famous and not so famous designers carried their shoes from the four corners of the world to show what they had to offer for the spring.

These little dazzlers caught my eye on day two of the Magic and Platform show held at the Las Vegas Convention Center.  These were a little different then the shoes that normally catch my eye because the little beauties are on a two-inch heel.  I am a stiletto girl at heart…but as you can see…these kitten heels had all the heart they needed.

Love these- $39.95 at Deborah Stilettos- Pre Order Now!!!

 

There is so much to love about these heels.  First, the heel is unique and adorable.  They will definitely catch the eye of those walking by which of course is what all of us women want.  The heart heel is also only two inches high making this shoe a possibility for many more women.  There are just some days you know that you will be doing a lot of walking and stilettos may not be the best choice.

Another great feature is the animal print which is still loved by so many and will continue its popularity this spring into the summer from all indications.  Of course, to make this shoe really appealing to the ladies out there are rhinestones placed across the front that catch the light just right.

So if you are looking to find a shoe that will be fun for the summer and easy to wear, you have met your match.  Just send us message through our Facebook www.Facebook.com/DeborahStilettos and we will be happy to help you pre-order these heels or you can just stop in our store at 16 W. Bridge Street, New Hope, Pa and visit us.  It will give you a great opportunity to sip some Champaign with us, walk around and see our other beautiful heels and join our Shoe Sorority which give you many benefits in our shoe world.

Until then…Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

DeborahStilettos.com

“Where the right shoe can change your life.”

 

 

5 Wardrobe Malfunctions…DVRs Have Never Come in Such Handy!

Is it me? Or does there seem to be more wardrobe malfunctions these days?  DVR’s originated so that people could record their favorite show.  Who would have thought that we would use them to view…and review…and view again our favorite celebrity’s clothes falling off, nipples popping out or skirts revealing nothing underneath?

While I am sure there were mishaps when I was young, the only one I can recall from way back when was the famous pose of Marilyn Monroe when she walked over the subway gate and her dress flew up.  Nothing was exposed and Marilyn certainly struck a pose- one that has traveled through the decades but recently the citings have been more frequent and more telling.  Here were five that I came up with…

1- Marilyn Monroe   As mentioned before, Ms. Monroe starred in the movie The Seven Year Itch and the infamous scene of her standing over the subway grate and her skirt flying higher was part of the script.  The picture of Marilyn holding down her dress that has been reprinted many times over throughout the decades was actually retaken at a studio.  The original shots were taken at 1am with 5000 people watching.  It has been noted that many of the shots were unusable because at that time it was considered inappropriate.  Imagine that?

Marilyn Monroe's Famous Subway Photo

 

2- Tanisha Mukherjee, an actress, was caught walking down the street with this black dress that suddenly became a kiss and tell when the sun hit it giving new meaning to panty lines.  Good thing for Ms. Mukherjee that her…hum..asset was just that.  This picture unfortunately got better reviews than most of her movies.

Talk about panty lines

3- Poor Britney Spears…went through her crazy time…who hasn’t …with the paparazzi only so ready to document it.  I guess Ms. Spears wasn’t afraid of being in an accident since underwear was not a concern at all.

Thongless is LA

 

4- Probably most notable in recent times was the Superbowl in which Justin Timberlake “accidentally” ripped off the right section of  Janet Jackson’s bustier.  I don’t know about you but I don’t normally wear a star over my nipple.  Whether it was planned or not, it has been documented to be one of the most reviewed DVR recording in history.  Sorry guys…it’s hard for us to believe you are hanging onto the recording of the Superbowl from 2004.

"Starring" Janet Jackson

 

5- Last and certainly not least is Jennifer Lopez who made everyone forget the costume and makeup presentation at the Academy Awards.  Ms. Lopez looked stunning in her dress but the dress not only had people smiling in admiration but also scratching their heads on whether Jennifer was presenting more than an Oscar.

Eye Popping...and other things popping at the Oscars

 

Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

DeborahStilettos.com

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