10 Reasons Why Your Business Can’t Afford Not To Be On Pinterest

I will be the first to admit that I was not the first to embrace the concept of Pinterest.  Quite frankly, I thought it was for people who had nothing better to do with their time than post random pictures in scrapbook-like categories.  I am the CEO of a company and spare time is as rare as cheap gas but soon I learned that not finding time for Pinterest would be a mistake my company could not afford to make.

For those of us born slightly prior to the computer era, keeping up with the ever-changing technological world can be somewhat daunting.  Now couple that with this “thing” called social media and you can find yourself always positioned behind the eight ball.  However, social media and Pinterest, most recently, cannot be ignored if those of us who find ourselves in the position of product branding want to be on the mind of those purchasing products each and everyday at the push of a button.

1- Pinterest is EASY to Use

I have a tendency to avoid what I don’t understand.  So it was no surprise to anyone   in my company that I dragged my heels (no pun intended) in embracing Pinterest.  I dreaded going on to another social media hot spot only to belabor the instructions and work through the kinks through trial and error.  However, Pinterest was as easy as putting a hot knife through butter.  The designers of this site made the site fun, easy, and addicting.

2- Instantly My Products Can Be Viewed and Repinned To Many Others

I come from the days of sending out postcards to prospective clients showing the latest and greatest of what my company had to offer.  The customer would marvel at the card, pick up the phone and call for further information.  Gone are those days.  Knowing what I do today, this method almost seems like it was taken from the annals of the Stone Age as it was anything but quick and easy.  Using Pinterest, I simply upload my product pictures, add some text (Pinterest was very generous in allowing a nice amount of space for those who love to talk about what we have to offer), I can attach a link and click.  Within seconds, my product went from the best kept secret to viral.  No wait time…no post office…no mailing lists.  Nice.

3- Pinterest Works Hand In Hand With Other Social Media Outlets

For those of us pressed for time, Pinterest has not only built a great platform to show what we have to offer but allows us to share this with other media outlets like Twitter and Facebook.  So one picture post has the possibilities of finding a home on three social media outlets and like the old Wella Balsam ad went “and they told two people and they told two people and on and on.”

4- See What Others In Your Industry are Doing

No need to set up spies like Bill Belachek did to win football games.  The cards are all laid out there for you to see.  Now it doesn’t take a brain sergeant to figure out that your competition also has a front row seat to what you are producing but if you are marketing your product correctly, they will anyway.  Conversely, if you see that those you are competing with in the open market all are offering products that are more similar than not, it might be a nice time to make a hard left and offer something different or improved.  In one place, you can see what is out there being offered and try to make it better.

5- Pinterest is No Cost Test Market

Remember the days of walking through the mall only to be stopped by a lovely woman with a clipboard soliciting your opinion on what perfume you wore, what vegetable brand you serve at dinner, or what television show you most watched.  Pinterest is a dream come true!  You have the option of following people on Pinterest that you have found to have a common interest or found their “pins” (Pinterest’s term for pictures that you post) to be interesting.  I suggest you find twenty people who have a connection to your business service or product.  They are a representation of what potential buyers are drawn.  If you start to see a repeated theme in the category in which you do business, you might want to consider incorporating those items into your own line or offerings.

6- Pinterest Allows You To Connect With More People

Some of us blasts from the past know this as the” touch program.”  The more times you can reach out to someone and show them what your company has to offer the better chance you have of success.  As I mentioned before, Pinterest does not only support this on their platform but makes connecting with others from other Social Media circles as easy as clicking a button.  People who view your pictures can comment back on them starting an instant dialogue and the possibility of building a relationship with a new client.  No return phone calls.  No email to be sent out.  And, more importantly, others viewing can read the conversation taking place causing more interest.

7- 10 Million Viewers a Month

Now that I have your attention!  What other marketing path could you travel that would allow you to advertise for FREE to 10 million viewers 24 hours a day every day of the month.  This doesn’t even count those who will see it on their Facebook and Twitter Accounts once it posts there as well.  And, unlike any other advertising channel,  your pictures remain allowing for people to revisit or find them at later dates when they have a need for what you have.  This alone should have you on pinning this afternoon.

8- A Picture Says A Thousand Words

Let’s face it.  Not all of us are word weavers or copy writers.  Pinterest lets you off the hook by letting your pin do all the talking.  Now Pinterest does encourage you to at least put a title on your post but you would want to do this anyway.  This can include your company’s name, website, and phone number.

9- Pinterest Let’s You Post Your Price Tag

Depending on your market, this might or might no be something that you can entertain.  I am in the women’s shoe business so not only are my clients impulse driven but they are price driven.  I can pin a shoe we just designed or got in for our stores, add a description, and simply type the price in the text box.  As soon as Pinterest detects the dollar sign it creates a banner on the top left hand corner of your picture. Viola…not only does my client get attracted to the heel by merely stumbling upon the picture but now she knows the price is affordable luxury fashion.  Home run, touchdown, or cha ching at the register…whatever lights you up.

10- Pinterest Showcases Your Company’s Ties With the Community Through Your Philanthropic Commitments

Who doesn’t love a company who gives back to those in need or helps their community.  By just creating a new board (how Pinterest allows you to categorize your pictures for easy viewing) potential clients will be able to align you with your charitable contributions.

BONUS- Ok, This is Not a Benefit To Your Business But You Will have Such Joy When Your Teenage Kids Realize Your Pictures are Being Repinned By Their Friends.

Who said you weren’t cool?

Any questions?  Just post them to this blog.

Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

    

 

Seeing Dots-Polka Dotted Stilettos

As polka dots make a big splash across the fashion winter/spring 2012 world, I chuckle to see the new designers smile broadly at their “new” fashion find.  Unfortunately, I have reached an age where I have seen fashion trends and crazes cycle back around like an old familiar friend.  Perhaps the application has a new twist but the concept is reflective of the past or what we call “vintage inspired.”  Over the past few years, vintage has taken hold of the fashion world making it only too chic to mix yesterday’s fashions with today’s concepts. And while many fashion experts will only be too happy to pontificate the falling in love all over again of a trend from the past, perhaps it is just the true appreciation of good fashion design.

I must admit I was over the moon when dots appeared before my eyes on this years most popular pumps, heels, and flats.  I found them to be fun, young and in some ways familiar.  As much as I tried, I was unable to control my urge to buy anything that had these little colored in circles.  I was like a young girl at a Sadie Hawkins dance unable to pick which one I would attend the dance.   As a true fashion addict, it only seemed reasonable to buy everything and anything with a polka dot on it.

Now I know that this fashion craze will see its final days relatively soon unless we decide to hold the fashion icons in a hold pattern much like we continue to do with the animal print craze.  Polka dots are eye-catching and even on a rainy Monday just throwing on a polka-dotted rain coat can make me swear I see rays of sunshine.  This spring’s shoe fashions have brought delectable colors back and while I love them I am drawn to those with dots like a moth to an outside light bulb in the summer.

Hot off the press!!  These just arrived on Friday.  So much fun and keeping in true commitment to my Shoe Sorority Sisters these lovelies are affordable. $39.95-affordable luxurious fashion at it’s best.

Polka Dotted Pumps-$39.95 at Deborah Stilettos

If you haven’t already, don’t miss out on adding a little fun to your wardrobe this spring.  We will continue to get an array of new shoes in over the next few weeks so I hope to see you in our store at 16 Bridge Street, New Hope, Pa or if you can’t make it you can always take a walk down the aisles of our website www.DeborahStilettos.com or our eBay store- Deborah Stilettos.

If you have found a fashion find this spring that highlights polka dots, post it to this blog.  We would love to see it!!!

Love and Kisses Bellas,

And as always, “the right shoe can change your life,”

Deborah Stilettos

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Stilettos During the Day…Toilet Brush At Night

I have the dream job.  I design and sell women’s shoes, heels, pumps, flats….. Each morning I get to dress up in the latest and greatest to go to work. Wearing a new pair of stilettos that was delivered to the store the day before, I spend my day blogging, reporting on, and delivering the newest and most fashionable shoes to all of my sisters of our Shoe Sorority. ( Send your email to Deborah@DeborahStilettos.com and I will be sure to sign you up.) The days are fun and glamorous.

Then five o’clock arrives.  I drive the short distance between my office/store and my home still in a good mood from all the goodies I was able to take a sneak peek on during my afternoon.   With the twist of my front door knob, I suddenly transform into Cinderella after the clock struck midnight. Words from my day like “fashionably affordable and stunning stilettos” are replaced with “why do I need another mess?”

My son who I picked up from weight lifting just moments earlier has found himself strategically placed on the couch unable to lift the garbage bag from the overflowing can in the kitchen.  My older son who tells me on a daily basis that he hates his science class has turned my kitchen counter into a laboratory test center to see how fast mold can grow on a glass of orange juice poured before he left for school.  My twenty year old daughter, who likes to regularly remind me on how she will manage her home more efficiently has left an empty bag of dog food on my living room chair.  Perhaps it is a new interior design technique I am unaware.

My heels pop off, the oven goes on and I have learned how to spray the Endust can far enough to hit three pieces of furniture at a time.  Then I silently laugh to myself.  The title of motherhood is one I have held longer than any other position at any other company.  Who would have ever known I go from being the Queen of Heels during the day to Princess of the Potty Brush at night?

Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

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Screaming Silence Behind Closed Doors

Take a minute and think about all of the women in your life…A mother, a daughter, a sister, a sister-in-law, a niece,an aunt, a mother-in-law, a best friend, a female co-worker, a cousin, a college roommate.  I could think of about twenty people who fell into one of the categories mentioned.  Now what if I told you that of the twenty people  who came to mind five of those women will be the victim of domestic violence inside their own homes.  Six of those women will be raped or sexually molested in their lifetimes.  All of their children will be drastically affected by living in violence. Leaving  their daughters with a  greater chance of becoming a victim… their sons with a higher possibility of being abusers. Startling statistics and yet these are so much more than numbers.  All of their voices are the screaming silences that seep out of closed doors only to fall on deaf ears.

Domestic violence is not just being beaten or hit.  It is being controlled, manipulated, shunned, repeatedly cheated on, publically embarrassed, black mailed, and financially strangled. It is being scared… feeling that there is no way out.  I know because I too screamed and cried and begged myself to leave only finding myself giving him one more chance.  Finally, one very dark night I finally found the front door and the hand of an angel who was willing to help me.  I got out.  My children got out.

We were given safe haven and to my disbelief the abuse continued and in some ways got worse.  I went to the police who could only encourage me to take the matter to a higher authority…the courts.  I was scared.  I felt sorry for him.  I hated myself for not making all of this better somehow.  I regretted not leaving much earlier.  In many ways, I had become sicker than the offender.

Things escalated. I filed for a temporary restraining order. I went to court.  Twenty minutes before I was to go before the judge I almost left fearing that I couldn’t go through with it.  Finally, I was granted the permanent restraining order.  Peace.

I don’t share any of these details to defame the offender.  It is not easy for me to actually write the words because seeing them dance across my computer screen makes them real and I have become an expert at down playing these events.  It has become a way for me to survive.  I am sharing my experience, strength and hope because while the abusers are the direct vehicle in which the abuse is delivered…it is the silence of all of us that fuels the efforts.

I watched a video tonight which I am posting at the bottom of this blog.  I encourage you to watch it.  We spend more money each year in this country saving native birds than saving the women and children of this country. An epidemic that will surely devastate the mental health of our people in the future.  It is not easy for a victim to speak about this.  It’s embarrassing but it is necessary.

If you are reading this and are suffering, please know you are not alone.  Find someone to help you and leave as safely as you can.  We need to break this cycle.  If you have survived abuse, share your story and lend your strength to someone who is feeling powerless.  God does not want any of us to suffer but perhaps he has chosen us…the survivers to reach out and save one of our own…another human being.

A portion of all the sales of www.DeborahStilettos.com, our store on Bridge Street in New Hope, Pa, and our eBay store will donate a portion of our sales to help women and children recovering from domestic violence.

I encourage to hear from anyone looking for help or those who can offer some advice from their own experiences.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3s2hu9Zon4s&feature=share

Domestic Violence Facts

Kisses Bellas…”The right shoe can change your life” but more importantly…no one deserves to be abused.

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

16 W. Bridge Street

New Hope, Pa

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Red Soled High Heel Man- Christian Louboutin

Christian Louboutin Heels

For twenty years, the great shoe designer, Christian Louboutin, has amazed high heel aficionados.  His designs are nothing short of masterpieces providing the simply elegant pump for the more modest wearer to the simply outrageous stilettos for the woman who prefers to be more edgy.  His designs and end product guarantee style, comfort and a high price tag.

 

Christian Louboutin Heels

 

In 1992 under the guidance of Charles Jourdan, Louboutin trained in the art of woman shoe design and crafting.  According to the Metropolitan Museum of Art- Costume Institute, it was with Jourdan and his beginning job at the Folies Bergeres that this new innovative designer began to understand the art of high heel walking was in “posture and proportion.”

Christian Louboutin Heels

Christian made his way through some of the most famous couture houses in France such as Chanel and Maud Frizon before settling down in 1992.  It was in his home country that the talents of Mr. Louboutin exploded. Making headlines in the fashion world and creating a frenzy among well coifed and wealthy women to wear his shoes, it was not long before this new designer made his way to the United States.

Christian Louboutin Heels

The trademark red under sole is the signature of the famed couture house and one that Mr. Louboutin has fought ferociously to defend and maintain.  As we speak, the US high courts are still deciding whether a color can actually be trademarked of which he responds “that it is not the color but the placement of this specific color of red” that he is fighting for the rights.  While there have been others that have mimicked the success of the red bottom heel and have been sued by the famous couture house, most recently Yves St. Laurent is the latest vying for the right.  The fashion world will just have to wait to see the outcome.

Until then, women delight in wearing the Louboutin red bottomed shoe because it is a sign of style, fashion and of wealth.  So how did the color red come about in the design aspect of his high heels?  Christian was in the process of creating a prototype that was reflective of the Pop Art Era when he felt that the bottom of the heel was too dark for what he was trying to create.  One of his assistance has a bottle of red nail polish that he quickly used to paint the bottom of the new creation.  Viola…the birth of the Louboutin logo.

The average Christian Louboutin high heel is around $700.00 extending to the thousands.  You will not be hard pressed to see celebrities wearing these beauties to red carpet events nor will you have to search long to find a high ranked business woman walking to her next meeting in them.  The craze of Louboutin heels took to a broader market when the beloved character Carrie from Sex and the City suffered from let’s say a small heel addiction and between Blatnik and Louboutin sucess was inevitable.

Christian Louboutin has given us twenty years of sugar high heel perfection.  If you are a shoe crazed maniac like I am, you cannot help but in complete awe of the collections he has brought to us.

Christian Louboutin Heels

Kisses Bellas and please don’t forget…”the right shoe can change your life.”

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

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Affordable High Heels- Who Doesn’t Like A Bargain

Who doesn’t like a bargain?  Have you ever gone shopping a really liked a pair of high heels only to find out that the were on sale?  Instant love!!!  I don’t know what it is about the word sale or even the phrase “   % off” that makes my heart beat fast and causes my to draw for my credit card faster than any cowboy in the wild west.  Yes I love a sale.  In today’s economy, we are all looking for great fashion for a great affordable price.  I know that I want to take a walk on the wild side it is easier to do so when I can find those unique items at reduced prices.

Deborah Stilettos strives to achieve this everyday in its store-16 West Bridge Street, New Hope, Pennsylvania and on its website- www.DeborahStilettos.com but there are times when we can even offer more to our beloved clients.  Visit our eBay store, http://myworld.ebay.com/innstilettos207 to get some additional savings.  Now the sizes might be limited but if you are lucky enough to find your size you will be rewarded with a great price.  Don’t wait.  People are taking advantage of all of these great heels at great prices.

 

Just one of the many heels available at our eBay Store $39.95

 

These are some fabulous heels…it’s just that our closet is crowded…which reminds me….visit our website www.DeborahStilettos.com/mycrowdedcloset for some additionally fabulous finds.

Kisses Bellas and remember…”the right shoe can change your life.”

Deborah Stilettos

Licking White, Sticky Marshmallows Off Your Fingers While Still Wearing Heels

If you live in the Northeast corridor of the United States like I do, you got pretty much jipped out of a winter.  I must confess, I personally thrilled that global warming has come to town (only kidding) because the winter and me…not exactly friends.  I hate being cold and after about an hour of cars and trucks driving through the newly fallen snow it loses its Norman Rockwell appeal.

However, there are somethings that are just wonderful about winter.  It’s a great time to cuddle, wear fabulous boots, and enjoy roaring fireplaces…but it’s also a lot of fun to make your own homemade marshmallows!  Let’s face it…you are running out in the morning trying to get the kids off to school before rushing to work.  You are busy as soon as you get home at your other full-time job of being a mother.  Dinner has to be made, floors have to be swept, dishes need to be done.  I often wonder if my kids would recognize me without a laundry basket in my hands.

Maybe tonight you put all of that on hold and make these amazingly easy and scrumptuous homemade marshmallows.  The ingredients are pretty basic but double-check the list to see if you have everything because some of the ingredients are not readily available in a modern-day kitchen.  If you have little kids, they will be amazed as the marshmallows take form in the mixer.  Teenagers?  Just make them and watch their eyes widen with delight. If you are feeding teenage boys…double the recipe.  If by some chance you have made it to mile marker two and all of your kids are grown…light some candles and put on some soft music.  The marshmallows will do the rest.  When you make them you will understand what I mean.  I just suggest that you wear a nice pair of stilettos while doing so.

I hope you enjoy these as much as my family has and the guests I have made them.

Kisses Bellas…and remember…”the right shoe can change your life”…and enjoyment of marshmallows.

Recipe:

  • 1/2 cup (125 ml) cold water
  • 3 envelopes (21 g, or about 3 Tablespoons) unflavored gelatin [1]
  • 2/3 cups (157 ml) corn syrup
  • 2 cups (400 g) granulated sugar
  • 1/4 cup (62 ml) water
  • 1/4 teaspoon (1.5 g) salt
  • 1 to 3 tablespoons (15 to 45 ml) vanilla extract or other flavorings (try amaretto, grand marnier, or almond extract)
  • Corn flour (cornstarch)
  • Confectioner’s sugar (powdered sugar)
  • Food colorings (optional)
The cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture.

The cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture.

Prepare a mixture of equal parts powdered sugar and cornstarch or corn flour. Mix a cup or more of each in a bowl and keep it handy.

Prepare your pan(s). Marshmallows are very sticky.

  • Line your pan with plastic wrap, waxed paper, or baking paper for easier release.
  • Thoroughly spray the pan or plastic wrap with cooking spray or pour some oil in and spread it all over with your hands or a pastry brush. Make sure the entire surface is well oiled.
  • Alternatively, you could use a silicone pan as it is non-stick.
  • Tilt and tap the pan to coat with cornstarch.

    Tilt and tap the pan to coat with cornstarch.

    Dust the oiled surface generously with the cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture. Tap the excess back into the bowl and reserve it for later.

  • 4
    Put gelatin in mixer bowl.

    Put gelatin in mixer bowl.

    Pour the 3 envelopes of gelatin into the bowl of an electric mixer.

  • 5
    Add the water.

    Add the water.

    Put 1/2 cup cold water into the bowl with the gelatin.

  • 6
    Gelatin blooming.

    Gelatin blooming.

    Let the gelatin and water sit for about 10 minutes while you prepare the sugar and corn syrup mixture. The gelatin will “bloom” during this time.

  • 7
    The sugar and corn syrup mixture

    The sugar and corn syrup mixture

    Combine 2 cups of granulated sugar, 1/4 cup water and 2/3 cups corn syrup in a small saucepan.

  • 8
    A dial candy thermometer.

    A dial candy thermometer.

    Bring the mixture in the saucepan to a boil.

  • 9
    A different candy thermometer shows the temperature is almost there.

    A different candy thermometer shows the temperature is almost there.

    Place a candy thermometer in it and watch for the temperature to reach exactly 117°C/244°F (in the soft ball stage).

  • 10
    Pour the sugar into the gelatin and start to mix.

    Pour the sugar into the gelatin and start to mix.

    Early in the mixing process.

    Early in the mixing process.

    Getting close.

    Getting close.

    Pour the boiling sugar mixture into the gelatin mixture and start mixing it at high speed. While mixing, add 1/4 teaspoon salt and beat for at least 15 minutes.

  • 11
    Add flavoring and color at the very end of the mixing.

    Add flavoring and color at the very end of the mixing.

    Add the vanilla extract or another flavoring at the end of the 15 minutes. Add food coloring, if desired, at this stage, too.

  • 12
    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan.

    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan.

    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan. It will help to oil your hands, spoon, or spatula before beginning.

  • 13
    Sprinkle more cornstarch on top.

    Sprinkle more cornstarch on top.

    Sprinkle more cornstarch over the top and, if you want, cover with another piece of plastic or waxed paper and press the mixture into the pan.

  • 14
    Let the marshmallows set.

    Let the marshmallows set.

    Let the marshmallows sit for about four hours at room temperature.

  • 15
    The slab on a cutting board.

    The slab on a cutting board.

    Remove the big slab of marshmallow from the pan and place it onto a cutting board well sprinkled with more of the cornstarch mixture. Sprinkle more cornstarch on the side that is now on top.

  • 16
    Cut into squares.

    Cut into squares.

    Cut the marshmallow into squares with kitchen scissors or a pizza wheel. You can also use cookie cutters to cut the marshmallows into shapes. Separate the pieces so they don’t stick back together.

  • 17
    Toss gently in more cornstarch.

    Toss gently in more cornstarch.

    Toss the pieces with powdered sugar to keep them from sticking to each other on the cut sides.

  • 18
    Stack the marshmallows.

    Stack the marshmallows.

    Stack the marshmallows into containers with sheets of waxed paper between each layer.

    • Trace container and cut multiple layers of waxed paper.

      Trace container and cut multiple layers of waxed paper.

      As long as the containers have fairly straight sides, you can trace the bottom of the container onto the waxed paper and cut several layers at once.

 

My Deep Dark Secret…and the Hope I Found Through Heels

I am about to step out of my comfort zone and open my deep dark closet for everyone who reads this to see.  There will be some that will read this and question my need to put this in writing and others who know me may be shocked or saddened to learn of what I am about to share.  While I appreciate those of you who fall into either of those categories for taking the time to read this blog, you are not the one I am writing to…I am writing to the woman who needs to hear this.

My life at one time was full of dreams and happy moments.  They were so happy quite frankly that I could never have imagined things turning out the way they did.  But as I look back, there were clues…clues I saw, clues I tripped on and clues I fell over and for some curious reason I continued down the path.  I came from a small town and had protective parents and two younger brothers.  My world was pretty small and sheltered.  I was like every young girl.  I dated, had my heart-broken, laughed a lot, hung out with my friends, and went to college.  School was my thing.  I loved learning and I was good at it.  I received awards, accomplished goals, and met a man who I would eventually call my husband.

Soon I took a path…the path down the wedding aisle, the path to children and a very dark path I couldn’t find my way out of for a very long time.  The years collected and so did the clues.  The changes didn’t happen over night.  They were slow and methodical.  At first, I thought I was just becoming too sensitive as I got older.  I then blamed it on the pressures of life and the demands of having children.  Things progressively got worse  and as they did my excuses became larger and more unreasonable.

And while this was a slow progression, when I finally woke up to see how my life was eroding away, I was not the same girl who left her small hometown.  I was a grown woman who had been ripped to shreds by the razor-sharp tongue by the man she thought loved her.  I became frightened of the phone that it was surely going to deliver another round of stinging words strung together to destroy what was left of my heart and soul.  My closet became my safe haven and I found myself constantly worried about my children, my finances, and my ability to endure the next crisis.

What happen to the girl who was destined to do great things?  How did she become this frightened woman unable to free herself from the grips of abuse?  To this day, I don’t know the answer and yet I find myself asking it over and over.

Then one day…the pot boiled over and a force greater than myself guided me to safety.  I cried, agonized, felt guilt ridden that I had left…a sickness some may call it.  But for me, I felt damaged.  I didn’t think my soul would ever repair.  In some ways, I was not even sure I had enough to go on but I woke up everyday because my children needed me.  I got dressed, put make up on, and functioned the best I could.  Little by little, I started a company.  Not every day was great but everyday was better than what I had left.  Tears slowly stopped flowing and I was actually surprised to hear myself laugh again.  Every milestone I reached allowed me to replace my fears with confidence.  The mountains were still there to climb but I was no longer doing it in bare feet.  I was prepared and gave myself moments to think my own thoughts.

I am free now… Free of the abuse and the unacceptable….free to be in love and be loved in return…free to make my own choices…and free to be in the company of others or in the peace of my own being.  Leaving was one of the hardest decisions I have ever made but it is the greatest gift I have ever given myself.  You only get one life…no do overs, no refunds!  You have the right to be happy…the right to be loved…the right to be appreciated…the right to live without fear.  This may not be your story but if it is…there’s hope.   And this is why a portion of every sale from Deborah Stilettos is used to help area programs fight the horrible effects of this violence.  Cinderella was right when she said “the right shoe can change your life.”

Kisses Bellas

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

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