How to Tell If Someone In New Jersey Has Electric or Does Not?

 

These past ten days have left many of us in New Jersey with so very little to laugh about. Hurricane Sandy blasted our beautiful state.  Many lost their homes and even worse…some lost their lives.  For those of us who were lucky enough to visit the Jersey Shore every summer, the newly carved landscape has left us breathless.  The first few days were met with disbelief but you could sense the communities bonding together as neighbors helped neighbors.  It was like being on a giant Survivor show.  However, when you cross over the ten day mark with no electric, heat, or water somehow you are forced to find the humor in the way it is easy to identify those New Jerseyeans with electric and those of us without.  Here are my eight findings.

1- You can stand in any grocery store and easily identify those still without electric.  Their baskets are filled with wood stacks, Duraflames, bottled water, and any food that does not require cooking.

2- Without much effort, those without electric can be easily picked out in the long line of cars at the high school.  They are the mothers and fathers who are wearing ten sweaters, a scarf, hat, gloves and a blanket over their shoulders.  Generously letting every car go in front of them to savor the heat of the car.

3- Sit in your car at any 7-11 and you will invariably be able to spot more people than not whose hair is going in every direction only to be complimented by their flip flop adorned feet covered with sweat socks.

4- I am not sure if GQ just announced that beards are back in but if they are…New Jersey is taking the lead…and not just the men.

5- Drive through your neighborhoods and the humming sound of generators blast through what was once a “quiet neighborhood.”  You will also know who doesn’t have electric still because the same plastic buckets are collecting water to flush toilets.

6- You can assume that anyone sitting in Starbucks, Barnes and Noble or the local Grocery store cafe with their laptop does not have electric.

7- Take a breeze through Facebook.  Somehow it feels better when you tell people you know and perfect strangers that showering has been a challenge for the past ten days.  In the same light, if you see someone walking into work with their toiletries…no lights at their house.

8- Those sitting at the endless lines at the gas stations with smiles on their face…no heat…the car is a vacation spot now.

 

There really is no making sense of any of this.  Mother Nature was ticked and took her frustration out on our state but I know this…New Jerseyeans with or without electric are survivors and we still love our shoes.

 

Be well Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

“Because the Right Shoe Can Change Your Life.”

 

Nice To Be Nude

If you are like most women, your life is busier than Bloomingdales on Black Friday.  The last thing you have time for is figuring out which shoe to put on in-between your roles as taxi driver, maid, CEO, chef, therapist, and fabulous cocktail conversationalist. Well recessionastas, you can now check “find perfect versatile shoe” off of your never ending list of things to do. Meet the Anthony by Pierre Dumas. Classic, sleek, professional and sexy, this black and nude wedge transcends trendy and becomes the epitome of style.  The wedge is low enough to be extremely functional, whether you are grocery shopping or running the kids to soccer practice, but high enough to be elegant and formal if that is what the occasion calls for.

 

Classic black and nude wedge

 

Pair this gorgeous black and nude wedge with any outfit to boost your style points and complete a polished and sophisticated look. Simple but sexy, the patent leather nude toe adds a point of interest while the velvet black body keeps the look streamlined and minimalist. Perfect for any age, size, occupation, or event, do yourself a favor and come scoop up your very own pair of the Anthony.

Ciao Bellas,

“Because the Right Shoe Can Change Your Life”

Deborah Stilettos

Is It Crazy to Walk In These Or Is It a Shoe Addiction?

Ok…I confess….I love shoes.  I have more shoes than I care to admit at this time.  My closet is overflowing.  My office is decorated in varying heel heights so that I am always prepared whatever the occasion.  I am the CEO of a woman’s shoe company. Ok…I’ll admit it!   I am a shoe addict.

Some might take that as a negative but I relish in it.  I’m know as the “Queen of Heels” and what a great empire to rule…platforms, stilettos, flats, mules, sandals, high heels, kitten heels, boots, Mary Janes…you can call them what you wish.  They are all part of what I call “heaven on earth.”

The true addict has more shoes than what some would deem necessary which is a shock to her.  Someone once asked me if I thought I was excessive and I found myself perplexed as I thought everyone felt the need to have every color foot ornament in varying sizes and shapes.  Making decisions on sizes, colors, shapes, comfort levels, and fabrics is something I do everyday and I can’t say I ever get tired of it but just because of sheer exposure a shoe that makes me go wow has to stand out.  In fact, I pride my company in only selecting these styles.  We are anything but ordinary…because shoe addicts need to be wowed!!

Number One Seller

This shoe arrived at our store a few weeks ago and has caused quite a stir.  I never buy a shoe twice but I had such a demand that I bought every shoe I could get my hands on.  Why so popular?  I think the color has a lot to do with it.  Nude is hot right now!!  It’s an easy kitten heel so the amount of people who can wear them is huge.  The bow is dramatic and has a definite european flair which is not found in today’s styles.  This is a winner with an affordable price….afforable luxury fashion…I told you this was heaven on earth!  (available on eBay  if you can’t get to the store  http://stores.ebay.com/Deborah-Stilettos22).  It is currently available in nude, red and black.  Stunning and one you will not want to pass up.

For those who are looking for a little bit of a wilder look, go no further.  When I spotted these lovelies at the Las Vegas Shoe Show, I knew my shoe addict sisters would melt and they have over and over again when seeing them.  The attraction?  Different, animal print, rhinestones…three strikes only this one gets a home run.

If you aren’t getting your man to whistle a love song when you wear these, you better check his pulse.  A true winner!  I would even call this “zexy”…ok I made it up but isn’t it a good word to describe it?   Available on eBay  http://www.ebay.com/itm/2-HEART-KITTEN-HEELS-CHEETAH-AND-RHINESTONES-SO-UNIQUE-STAND-OUT-/170834293248?pt=US_Women_s_Shoes&var=&hash=item6d756d0ace.

Ok…now for my high heels sisters who graduated with a PhD in heels.  There are not enough words to describe them so lets just say sexy…crazy…heels and leave it at that.

This is available on our other shopping site.  http://www.bonanza.com/listings/4-CRAZY-UNIQUE-HEEL-IN-LEOPARD-AND-CHEETAH-PRINTS/72125481.

Don’t worry if these are not your personality…we have over 180 styles to choose from so go ahead…take the plunge…your closet has room.

 

Kisses Bellas and Always remembers…”the right shoe can change your life”,

Deborah

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A Heel with Bullet Shells? A Good Reason to Step Out

High heels, flats, stilettos…it doesn’t really matter what you call them…I LOVE SHOES!!  This year’s spring/summer colors of orange, lime green and neons will most definitely find  a space in my shoe closet and on the shelves of my store.  Polka dots on footwear almost makes me weak in the knees. Like a dip in the Fountain of Youth, when I put them on I feel young.  The funny thing is…I know I am not alone!!

I had a wonderful day in Deborah Stilettos yesterday-located at 16 W Bridge Street, New Hope, Pa.  Sunday afternoon…and the women were so excited by the new shoes we had gotten in.  When I told them we had over 90 more coming in…they were beyond delighted.  However, the high heel that got most of the attention was my own creation…”Heels of Justice.”

Heels of Justice

I created this shoe as a symbol for all women suffering and recovering from domestic violence.  The many brass 22 caliper bullet shells positioned on this nude Mary Jane are empty representing the end of violence.  The shoe is unique representing the individual strength in all of us.  When you put these on…you are standing tall and strong.

I am recovering from domestic violence and have pledged myself as a designer, business woman, mother, and victim to do all that I can to help women and children who have had to endure the unthinkable…to be degraded as a human being.  Abuse is not just physical violence. It is also the emotional soul bashing that many women endure daily.

The proceeds of these shoes will go to Heeling, Inc., a charitable organization raising money for area prevention and assistance programs.

Be a part of the movement today…make more than a fashion statement today…buy these shoes and let’s spread the word that domestic violence needs to end!

Available on our eBay store: http://stores.ebay.com/Deborah-Stilettos22

Heels of Justice

Thanks for your support Bellas!!

Deborah Stilettos

www.Facebook.com/HeelingInc

 

10 Reasons Why Your Business Can’t Afford Not To Be On Pinterest

I will be the first to admit that I was not the first to embrace the concept of Pinterest.  Quite frankly, I thought it was for people who had nothing better to do with their time than post random pictures in scrapbook-like categories.  I am the CEO of a company and spare time is as rare as cheap gas but soon I learned that not finding time for Pinterest would be a mistake my company could not afford to make.

For those of us born slightly prior to the computer era, keeping up with the ever-changing technological world can be somewhat daunting.  Now couple that with this “thing” called social media and you can find yourself always positioned behind the eight ball.  However, social media and Pinterest, most recently, cannot be ignored if those of us who find ourselves in the position of product branding want to be on the mind of those purchasing products each and everyday at the push of a button.

1- Pinterest is EASY to Use

I have a tendency to avoid what I don’t understand.  So it was no surprise to anyone   in my company that I dragged my heels (no pun intended) in embracing Pinterest.  I dreaded going on to another social media hot spot only to belabor the instructions and work through the kinks through trial and error.  However, Pinterest was as easy as putting a hot knife through butter.  The designers of this site made the site fun, easy, and addicting.

2- Instantly My Products Can Be Viewed and Repinned To Many Others

I come from the days of sending out postcards to prospective clients showing the latest and greatest of what my company had to offer.  The customer would marvel at the card, pick up the phone and call for further information.  Gone are those days.  Knowing what I do today, this method almost seems like it was taken from the annals of the Stone Age as it was anything but quick and easy.  Using Pinterest, I simply upload my product pictures, add some text (Pinterest was very generous in allowing a nice amount of space for those who love to talk about what we have to offer), I can attach a link and click.  Within seconds, my product went from the best kept secret to viral.  No wait time…no post office…no mailing lists.  Nice.

3- Pinterest Works Hand In Hand With Other Social Media Outlets

For those of us pressed for time, Pinterest has not only built a great platform to show what we have to offer but allows us to share this with other media outlets like Twitter and Facebook.  So one picture post has the possibilities of finding a home on three social media outlets and like the old Wella Balsam ad went “and they told two people and they told two people and on and on.”

4- See What Others In Your Industry are Doing

No need to set up spies like Bill Belachek did to win football games.  The cards are all laid out there for you to see.  Now it doesn’t take a brain sergeant to figure out that your competition also has a front row seat to what you are producing but if you are marketing your product correctly, they will anyway.  Conversely, if you see that those you are competing with in the open market all are offering products that are more similar than not, it might be a nice time to make a hard left and offer something different or improved.  In one place, you can see what is out there being offered and try to make it better.

5- Pinterest is No Cost Test Market

Remember the days of walking through the mall only to be stopped by a lovely woman with a clipboard soliciting your opinion on what perfume you wore, what vegetable brand you serve at dinner, or what television show you most watched.  Pinterest is a dream come true!  You have the option of following people on Pinterest that you have found to have a common interest or found their “pins” (Pinterest’s term for pictures that you post) to be interesting.  I suggest you find twenty people who have a connection to your business service or product.  They are a representation of what potential buyers are drawn.  If you start to see a repeated theme in the category in which you do business, you might want to consider incorporating those items into your own line or offerings.

6- Pinterest Allows You To Connect With More People

Some of us blasts from the past know this as the” touch program.”  The more times you can reach out to someone and show them what your company has to offer the better chance you have of success.  As I mentioned before, Pinterest does not only support this on their platform but makes connecting with others from other Social Media circles as easy as clicking a button.  People who view your pictures can comment back on them starting an instant dialogue and the possibility of building a relationship with a new client.  No return phone calls.  No email to be sent out.  And, more importantly, others viewing can read the conversation taking place causing more interest.

7- 10 Million Viewers a Month

Now that I have your attention!  What other marketing path could you travel that would allow you to advertise for FREE to 10 million viewers 24 hours a day every day of the month.  This doesn’t even count those who will see it on their Facebook and Twitter Accounts once it posts there as well.  And, unlike any other advertising channel,  your pictures remain allowing for people to revisit or find them at later dates when they have a need for what you have.  This alone should have you on pinning this afternoon.

8- A Picture Says A Thousand Words

Let’s face it.  Not all of us are word weavers or copy writers.  Pinterest lets you off the hook by letting your pin do all the talking.  Now Pinterest does encourage you to at least put a title on your post but you would want to do this anyway.  This can include your company’s name, website, and phone number.

9- Pinterest Let’s You Post Your Price Tag

Depending on your market, this might or might no be something that you can entertain.  I am in the women’s shoe business so not only are my clients impulse driven but they are price driven.  I can pin a shoe we just designed or got in for our stores, add a description, and simply type the price in the text box.  As soon as Pinterest detects the dollar sign it creates a banner on the top left hand corner of your picture. Viola…not only does my client get attracted to the heel by merely stumbling upon the picture but now she knows the price is affordable luxury fashion.  Home run, touchdown, or cha ching at the register…whatever lights you up.

10- Pinterest Showcases Your Company’s Ties With the Community Through Your Philanthropic Commitments

Who doesn’t love a company who gives back to those in need or helps their community.  By just creating a new board (how Pinterest allows you to categorize your pictures for easy viewing) potential clients will be able to align you with your charitable contributions.

BONUS- Ok, This is Not a Benefit To Your Business But You Will have Such Joy When Your Teenage Kids Realize Your Pictures are Being Repinned By Their Friends.

Who said you weren’t cool?

Any questions?  Just post them to this blog.

Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

    

 

Seeing Dots-Polka Dotted Stilettos

As polka dots make a big splash across the fashion winter/spring 2012 world, I chuckle to see the new designers smile broadly at their “new” fashion find.  Unfortunately, I have reached an age where I have seen fashion trends and crazes cycle back around like an old familiar friend.  Perhaps the application has a new twist but the concept is reflective of the past or what we call “vintage inspired.”  Over the past few years, vintage has taken hold of the fashion world making it only too chic to mix yesterday’s fashions with today’s concepts. And while many fashion experts will only be too happy to pontificate the falling in love all over again of a trend from the past, perhaps it is just the true appreciation of good fashion design.

I must admit I was over the moon when dots appeared before my eyes on this years most popular pumps, heels, and flats.  I found them to be fun, young and in some ways familiar.  As much as I tried, I was unable to control my urge to buy anything that had these little colored in circles.  I was like a young girl at a Sadie Hawkins dance unable to pick which one I would attend the dance.   As a true fashion addict, it only seemed reasonable to buy everything and anything with a polka dot on it.

Now I know that this fashion craze will see its final days relatively soon unless we decide to hold the fashion icons in a hold pattern much like we continue to do with the animal print craze.  Polka dots are eye-catching and even on a rainy Monday just throwing on a polka-dotted rain coat can make me swear I see rays of sunshine.  This spring’s shoe fashions have brought delectable colors back and while I love them I am drawn to those with dots like a moth to an outside light bulb in the summer.

Hot off the press!!  These just arrived on Friday.  So much fun and keeping in true commitment to my Shoe Sorority Sisters these lovelies are affordable. $39.95-affordable luxurious fashion at it’s best.

Polka Dotted Pumps-$39.95 at Deborah Stilettos

If you haven’t already, don’t miss out on adding a little fun to your wardrobe this spring.  We will continue to get an array of new shoes in over the next few weeks so I hope to see you in our store at 16 Bridge Street, New Hope, Pa or if you can’t make it you can always take a walk down the aisles of our website www.DeborahStilettos.com or our eBay store- Deborah Stilettos.

If you have found a fashion find this spring that highlights polka dots, post it to this blog.  We would love to see it!!!

Love and Kisses Bellas,

And as always, “the right shoe can change your life,”

Deborah Stilettos

www.Facebook.com/DeborahStilettos

 

 

Stilettos During the Day…Toilet Brush At Night

I have the dream job.  I design and sell women’s shoes, heels, pumps, flats….. Each morning I get to dress up in the latest and greatest to go to work. Wearing a new pair of stilettos that was delivered to the store the day before, I spend my day blogging, reporting on, and delivering the newest and most fashionable shoes to all of my sisters of our Shoe Sorority. ( Send your email to Deborah@DeborahStilettos.com and I will be sure to sign you up.) The days are fun and glamorous.

Then five o’clock arrives.  I drive the short distance between my office/store and my home still in a good mood from all the goodies I was able to take a sneak peek on during my afternoon.   With the twist of my front door knob, I suddenly transform into Cinderella after the clock struck midnight. Words from my day like “fashionably affordable and stunning stilettos” are replaced with “why do I need another mess?”

My son who I picked up from weight lifting just moments earlier has found himself strategically placed on the couch unable to lift the garbage bag from the overflowing can in the kitchen.  My older son who tells me on a daily basis that he hates his science class has turned my kitchen counter into a laboratory test center to see how fast mold can grow on a glass of orange juice poured before he left for school.  My twenty year old daughter, who likes to regularly remind me on how she will manage her home more efficiently has left an empty bag of dog food on my living room chair.  Perhaps it is a new interior design technique I am unaware.

My heels pop off, the oven goes on and I have learned how to spray the Endust can far enough to hit three pieces of furniture at a time.  Then I silently laugh to myself.  The title of motherhood is one I have held longer than any other position at any other company.  Who would have ever known I go from being the Queen of Heels during the day to Princess of the Potty Brush at night?

Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

www.Facebook.com/DeborahStilettos

Red Soled High Heel Man- Christian Louboutin

Christian Louboutin Heels

For twenty years, the great shoe designer, Christian Louboutin, has amazed high heel aficionados.  His designs are nothing short of masterpieces providing the simply elegant pump for the more modest wearer to the simply outrageous stilettos for the woman who prefers to be more edgy.  His designs and end product guarantee style, comfort and a high price tag.

 

Christian Louboutin Heels

 

In 1992 under the guidance of Charles Jourdan, Louboutin trained in the art of woman shoe design and crafting.  According to the Metropolitan Museum of Art- Costume Institute, it was with Jourdan and his beginning job at the Folies Bergeres that this new innovative designer began to understand the art of high heel walking was in “posture and proportion.”

Christian Louboutin Heels

Christian made his way through some of the most famous couture houses in France such as Chanel and Maud Frizon before settling down in 1992.  It was in his home country that the talents of Mr. Louboutin exploded. Making headlines in the fashion world and creating a frenzy among well coifed and wealthy women to wear his shoes, it was not long before this new designer made his way to the United States.

Christian Louboutin Heels

The trademark red under sole is the signature of the famed couture house and one that Mr. Louboutin has fought ferociously to defend and maintain.  As we speak, the US high courts are still deciding whether a color can actually be trademarked of which he responds “that it is not the color but the placement of this specific color of red” that he is fighting for the rights.  While there have been others that have mimicked the success of the red bottom heel and have been sued by the famous couture house, most recently Yves St. Laurent is the latest vying for the right.  The fashion world will just have to wait to see the outcome.

Until then, women delight in wearing the Louboutin red bottomed shoe because it is a sign of style, fashion and of wealth.  So how did the color red come about in the design aspect of his high heels?  Christian was in the process of creating a prototype that was reflective of the Pop Art Era when he felt that the bottom of the heel was too dark for what he was trying to create.  One of his assistance has a bottle of red nail polish that he quickly used to paint the bottom of the new creation.  Viola…the birth of the Louboutin logo.

The average Christian Louboutin high heel is around $700.00 extending to the thousands.  You will not be hard pressed to see celebrities wearing these beauties to red carpet events nor will you have to search long to find a high ranked business woman walking to her next meeting in them.  The craze of Louboutin heels took to a broader market when the beloved character Carrie from Sex and the City suffered from let’s say a small heel addiction and between Blatnik and Louboutin sucess was inevitable.

Christian Louboutin has given us twenty years of sugar high heel perfection.  If you are a shoe crazed maniac like I am, you cannot help but in complete awe of the collections he has brought to us.

Christian Louboutin Heels

Kisses Bellas and please don’t forget…”the right shoe can change your life.”

Deborah Stilettos

www.DeborahStilettos.com

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Licking White, Sticky Marshmallows Off Your Fingers While Still Wearing Heels

If you live in the Northeast corridor of the United States like I do, you got pretty much jipped out of a winter.  I must confess, I personally thrilled that global warming has come to town (only kidding) because the winter and me…not exactly friends.  I hate being cold and after about an hour of cars and trucks driving through the newly fallen snow it loses its Norman Rockwell appeal.

However, there are somethings that are just wonderful about winter.  It’s a great time to cuddle, wear fabulous boots, and enjoy roaring fireplaces…but it’s also a lot of fun to make your own homemade marshmallows!  Let’s face it…you are running out in the morning trying to get the kids off to school before rushing to work.  You are busy as soon as you get home at your other full-time job of being a mother.  Dinner has to be made, floors have to be swept, dishes need to be done.  I often wonder if my kids would recognize me without a laundry basket in my hands.

Maybe tonight you put all of that on hold and make these amazingly easy and scrumptuous homemade marshmallows.  The ingredients are pretty basic but double-check the list to see if you have everything because some of the ingredients are not readily available in a modern-day kitchen.  If you have little kids, they will be amazed as the marshmallows take form in the mixer.  Teenagers?  Just make them and watch their eyes widen with delight. If you are feeding teenage boys…double the recipe.  If by some chance you have made it to mile marker two and all of your kids are grown…light some candles and put on some soft music.  The marshmallows will do the rest.  When you make them you will understand what I mean.  I just suggest that you wear a nice pair of stilettos while doing so.

I hope you enjoy these as much as my family has and the guests I have made them.

Kisses Bellas…and remember…”the right shoe can change your life”…and enjoyment of marshmallows.

Recipe:

  • 1/2 cup (125 ml) cold water
  • 3 envelopes (21 g, or about 3 Tablespoons) unflavored gelatin [1]
  • 2/3 cups (157 ml) corn syrup
  • 2 cups (400 g) granulated sugar
  • 1/4 cup (62 ml) water
  • 1/4 teaspoon (1.5 g) salt
  • 1 to 3 tablespoons (15 to 45 ml) vanilla extract or other flavorings (try amaretto, grand marnier, or almond extract)
  • Corn flour (cornstarch)
  • Confectioner’s sugar (powdered sugar)
  • Food colorings (optional)
The cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture.

The cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture.

Prepare a mixture of equal parts powdered sugar and cornstarch or corn flour. Mix a cup or more of each in a bowl and keep it handy.

Prepare your pan(s). Marshmallows are very sticky.

  • Line your pan with plastic wrap, waxed paper, or baking paper for easier release.
  • Thoroughly spray the pan or plastic wrap with cooking spray or pour some oil in and spread it all over with your hands or a pastry brush. Make sure the entire surface is well oiled.
  • Alternatively, you could use a silicone pan as it is non-stick.
  • Tilt and tap the pan to coat with cornstarch.

    Tilt and tap the pan to coat with cornstarch.

    Dust the oiled surface generously with the cornstarch and powdered sugar mixture. Tap the excess back into the bowl and reserve it for later.

  • 4
    Put gelatin in mixer bowl.

    Put gelatin in mixer bowl.

    Pour the 3 envelopes of gelatin into the bowl of an electric mixer.

  • 5
    Add the water.

    Add the water.

    Put 1/2 cup cold water into the bowl with the gelatin.

  • 6
    Gelatin blooming.

    Gelatin blooming.

    Let the gelatin and water sit for about 10 minutes while you prepare the sugar and corn syrup mixture. The gelatin will “bloom” during this time.

  • 7
    The sugar and corn syrup mixture

    The sugar and corn syrup mixture

    Combine 2 cups of granulated sugar, 1/4 cup water and 2/3 cups corn syrup in a small saucepan.

  • 8
    A dial candy thermometer.

    A dial candy thermometer.

    Bring the mixture in the saucepan to a boil.

  • 9
    A different candy thermometer shows the temperature is almost there.

    A different candy thermometer shows the temperature is almost there.

    Place a candy thermometer in it and watch for the temperature to reach exactly 117°C/244°F (in the soft ball stage).

  • 10
    Pour the sugar into the gelatin and start to mix.

    Pour the sugar into the gelatin and start to mix.

    Early in the mixing process.

    Early in the mixing process.

    Getting close.

    Getting close.

    Pour the boiling sugar mixture into the gelatin mixture and start mixing it at high speed. While mixing, add 1/4 teaspoon salt and beat for at least 15 minutes.

  • 11
    Add flavoring and color at the very end of the mixing.

    Add flavoring and color at the very end of the mixing.

    Add the vanilla extract or another flavoring at the end of the 15 minutes. Add food coloring, if desired, at this stage, too.

  • 12
    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan.

    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan.

    Spread the mixture evenly in a prepared pan. It will help to oil your hands, spoon, or spatula before beginning.

  • 13
    Sprinkle more cornstarch on top.

    Sprinkle more cornstarch on top.

    Sprinkle more cornstarch over the top and, if you want, cover with another piece of plastic or waxed paper and press the mixture into the pan.

  • 14
    Let the marshmallows set.

    Let the marshmallows set.

    Let the marshmallows sit for about four hours at room temperature.

  • 15
    The slab on a cutting board.

    The slab on a cutting board.

    Remove the big slab of marshmallow from the pan and place it onto a cutting board well sprinkled with more of the cornstarch mixture. Sprinkle more cornstarch on the side that is now on top.

  • 16
    Cut into squares.

    Cut into squares.

    Cut the marshmallow into squares with kitchen scissors or a pizza wheel. You can also use cookie cutters to cut the marshmallows into shapes. Separate the pieces so they don’t stick back together.

  • 17
    Toss gently in more cornstarch.

    Toss gently in more cornstarch.

    Toss the pieces with powdered sugar to keep them from sticking to each other on the cut sides.

  • 18
    Stack the marshmallows.

    Stack the marshmallows.

    Stack the marshmallows into containers with sheets of waxed paper between each layer.

    • Trace container and cut multiple layers of waxed paper.

      Trace container and cut multiple layers of waxed paper.

      As long as the containers have fairly straight sides, you can trace the bottom of the container onto the waxed paper and cut several layers at once.

 

Thoughts While In Heels-Relating to My Heels

This morning I opened my shoe closet to select what heels I would be wearing for the day.  The 5 inch nude Mary Janes…nah…don’t feel like being careful of the path I choose to walk or alert not to step on anyone’s toes today.  The cute ballerina flats…nope…they feel good when I first put them on but after a few hours they become annoying.  My sneakers…they are cute and comfortable but really are boring and predictable.  Maybe my blue suede heels…they hurt from the minute I put them on and cause me hours of after effects like blisters and cuts but like the definition of insanity I keep wearing them expecting different results.  Instead I opted for my beautiful, chunky heel, suede, red booties.  Comfortable yet slightly edgy…soft yet firm in its presentation of the heel…I true delight to wear.

Then it dawned on me how much heels, flats and stilettos were like relationships. Some are comfy and like an old shoe…reliable but lackluster in the thrill department.  Others are painful from the get go and yet we keep hoping they will soften up before they leave us covered in painful blisters.  And then of course, there are the heels that no matter what you wear them with or how long you travel with them on, they just feel good.

Now I am not trying to minimize relationships but wouldn’t it be fun if we could treat our human ties like we handle our shoes?  Just like Pintrest, we could view the shoes and “like” the ones on preview.  Others, sent to us via Facebook Pages could be “unfanned” when they became unappealing, annoying, or overbearing…instead of divorcing.  You could simply resole them, reheel them, change the laces, dye them, or give them to someone who doesn’t have any.  Shop for one on Deborah Stilettos.com and have it delivered in 24 hours without having to make small talk or trudge through a million bad dates.

I love my shoes…but truth be told…they don’t cuddle well with on the couch at night.

Kisses Bellas,

Deborah Stilettos

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